Thread:Blue Pant./@comment-10269581-20160713035510/@comment-4423426-20160713203002

Since you've mentioned talking about your actions. The thing is. With that situation, what I've seen you done time and time again with everyone else is you get involved in a situation, but you know what the backlash will be, so you dismiss it. I didn't want this to happen this time, and about being passive aggressive-- the fact you were trying to dismiss it after starting it, is a prime example of that. If you're going to start something like that, then why dismiss it? Looking back, the way I said a certain sentence there was very blunt, and I aplogize for that. There's a reason behind it. I had a worse response planned actually. I haven't wanted to say it, and I don't know if I want to say it here but if you want I can message you or something. I don't want to bring past events to this thread. But yeah, I noticed a lot you would get involved in situations and then dismiss it with "shrug" usually and it doesn't really solve much. The fact you dismiss it shows that you know what the backlash would be. If you didn't want the baclash, then why would you get involved? That's what I was trying to say last night before you cussed at me and left. You can't just start  something with someone, then dismiss it. Others may have fallen for that tactic but I really haven't.

Then again, maybe it escalated the way it did because there was tension with us to begin with in the PM where you told me about that warning I left. I at the time was working on Tumblr posts, and was finally catching up to them because they stress me out. I probably should have said I couldn't talk right then, but it was urgent so I felt on-edge and that's why I was a little passive aggressive myself. I had been meaning to apologize about that, but you weren't on for half of the day but when you did go on...well that happened.

but is this really the straw that broke the camel's back?

I should really say this to you, but Stick is right to an extent. Your wanting to be right all the time, leads to situations like this, and it's gotten even worse recently when you immediatly try to dismiss the situation with "shrug" or "but whatever" Yeah, I've noticed that and the reason this keeps happening is because you haven't really tackled that problem. I don't think I've actually brought that up to you until now. I also noticed  something else, that with certain users who have shown affection for you(let's put it that way) you've often said very rash things to them, despite that. You've corrected them on certain things rudely.

You don't really need to leave and no one wants you gone. In fact, I'd  actually still be on board with you staying patroller even after last night's incident. It just keeps happening because you don't tackle these issues, but maybe it's also because I haven't brought them up. I still consider you a friend and I still don't want you to leave. Yes, we have arguements at times but we also agree on a lot of things too. Usually things in certain situations I find that we both have the same viewpoint that has gone overlooked for everyone else. So there's that. You may take a break/leave if you want, but I think it's worth actually changing these issues. Working on the way you act around users a bit. I revived this thread because I struggled with what to say exactly it was all out of the Pant dot.

Hopefully you consider what I've said and I don't stay mad at people for long either. If I did, I wouldn't be responding like this after that insult last night. I've been past that for years. See? Those issues I had I tackled. Remember 2011-early 2013 me? I worked on that, and this is where I am now. I still have things I need to improve on too, but that's part of the process. I just feel like if you tackle these issues head-on, then it won't keep happening the way it does.

That's all I have to say. Hopefully you think about it whether or not you're leaving-- if you are and decide to return someday you could return in the way Water did-- where he  removed most of those issues and look where  he is now.